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    October 10

    人和人相處不必複雜

    A和B是同學,念書時感情好得不得了,畢業後兩人分別創業結婚。

    A的生意愈做愈大,最飛黃騰達的時候,公司裡有上百名員工,A每天忙得不得了,漸漸和老朋友就不連絡了,偶爾B想打電話問候他,總是秘書接的,B也就不打了。

    關於A的近況都是從朋友那裡輾轉聽說的。

    景氣不好,B的公司規模不大,但是穩扎穩打的作風,生意並未受到太多影響。

    A的情況就不同了,飛黃騰達之後,A養成了好大喜功的習慣,公司表面看起風光,其實有不少資金是向銀行貸款來的,幾次周轉不靈,廠商不願繼續通融,員工的薪水也好幾個月無法準時發放,終於撐不下去,公司倒了不說,還背千萬的債務。

    有一天,B去拜訪客戶,在街上遇到A,A看起來神情疲憊,B已經聽說老朋友的事,他熱情拉A一起吃午飯。

    開著車來到學校附近,在巷子裡一家不起眼的小店,B點了兩碗蚵仔麵線,還有滷豆腐和燙青菜,A沒有想到B說請他吃飯,竟然如此寒酸,難道是見他落魄了,懶得應酬他,還是怕他會開口借錢,乾脆先裝窮,A的心裡十分不舒服。

    麵線送上來了,B說:「你記得嗎?十年前我們在這裡念書時,你喜歡吃這家的蚵仔麵線,說他們的大腸處理得好,蚵仔也新鮮,那時候我們沒錢,只能吃麵線,連個小菜都覺得奢侈,我想你大概很久沒吃蚵仔麵線了,我倒是常來這裡吃,也回味一下年輕時....」。

    A不懂B究竟是什麼意思,不過,A也想起來以前確實很喜歡吃這家的蚵仔麵線,為什麼畢業後再也沒來吃過,沒想到這家小店還開著,而且麵線還是很好吃,滋味完全不輸魚翅呢。

    B看A吃出了滋味,便對A說,我的公司小,不能和你闖下的局面比,但時機不好,如果你不嫌棄,就先來和我一起做吧,將來有適當的機會,你想要另起爐灶也行,或是我們哥兒倆就合作下去都行。

    A沒想到B會如此爽快伸出援手,A的眼淚在眼眶裡打轉,將近十年沒連絡,B的情誼一點沒變,就像蚵仔麵線的滋味。

    A為了掩飾自己的情感,故意捧起碗大口喝湯,放下碗時,他說:「謝謝你,帶我來吃蚵仔麵線,我以為很多事都變了,原來還有長久不變的滋味。」

    有時候我們覺得別人變了,其實是自己變了,有時候我們覺得一切都變了,其實只有自己變了。
     
     註: 朋友,常因長大後各自忙於自己的工作及家庭而疏於聯絡,慢慢的就漸行漸遠,當有天腦海中回憶起當時相處時的悲歡歲月心中有股想聯絡的衝動卻又因久未聯繫而害怕聯絡,怕電話的一頭已找不到人,怕自己還記著對方,但對方卻早已將自己從生命中給忘懷,緣份常在這樣的一念而起,又因一念而滅。

    念起則緣起,念滅則緣滅,緣起緣滅全在一念之間。

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